This is a frequent dilemma among the male kind, so here I have tried to make their job easier. We are after all from Venus & the frequent complain of the difficult proposition of trying to figure out what women wan’t is a downer...So here are a list of what we want, so just go out there and get that special someone-
v RESPECT- Utmost respect for who they are.
v CONCERN-Lots of genuine concern & love.
v CHIVALRY-A little chivalry won’t hurt you, although we go on & on about equality, pulling a chair & holding doors open has never hurt anyone. But don’t go overboard.
v BE YOURSELF-We are super-sensitive (some more than the others) so any sort of pretense easily alerts our radar.
v ETIQUETTE- Chomping on your finger-chips, slurping your soup is a big turn-off.
v STOP THE TRASH TALK- Don’t refer to other women in a demeaning sort of way ie ’item’, ‘maal’ ‘bomb’ etc (even in jest) it shows your upbringing.
v DON’T BE A MISER- Although most of us will readily pay our share even for a meal, its always nice to offer to pay & not visit the washroom when the bill comes.
v SAY IT, IF YOU FEEL IT- So after following the above steps, just as you are wondering ‘should I/shouldn’t I’, will she reciprocate, chances are even the girl is feeling the same. So just go for it, without over-analysing.The small thorns in your path will be trampled.
So now that you know what she want’s, go get her buddy!
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